Why do I love DIY weddings? Honestly, because I am often blown away by what families can do. I love writing this blog because it’s my way of showing that DIY weddings are *not* “sub weddings.” They’re not the second-choice option or a watered-down version of something else. They’re full of talent, creativity, and heart.
That said, I get that DIY isn’t for everyone. It *is* a lot of work, and yes—it can be stressful. But here at Mitchell Grove, what excites me is seeing how each couple and their family transforms the space. It’s the same orchard, the same grove, the same garden paths—but every weekend it looks completely different. Nothing cookie cutter about it.
Take this wedding, for example. The couple’s family created a photo booth backdrop from scratch, complete with a playful balloon arch. Guests lined up to take silly photos, and the couple ended up with a whole set of joyful memories captured with their favorite people. The best part? It was built by their family’s own hands. That kind of personal touch is something money can’t buy—it’s a one-of-a-kind gift of time, love, and creativity.
And here’s the thing: just because a wedding is DIY doesn’t mean it’s not as beautiful as one designed by professionals. It’s simply a different kind of beautiful. I deeply respect professional vendors—they’re talented and skilled at what they do—but it’s also amazing that couples have the *choice*.
What I love most is that DIY weddings always end up unique. Every handmade arch, every creative seating chart, every balloon or flower arrangement—it all reflects the couple and their families. When you make those choices, you bring yourself into the day, and that’s what makes it one of a kind.